GRM Marriage Readiness Self-Assessment

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GRM Marriage Readiness Self-Assessment

Instructions: Please indicate the extent to which each statement is true to you. * indicates the section/field is required and not optional.
Never true of meRarely true of meSometimes true of meOften true of meAlways true of me
1. Jesus is at the center of my life? (Or do you have any idols? Does Jesus have the final say on any given matter in your life?)
2. I place priority on studying God’s word and prayer.
3. I seek to walk in humility rather than pride (Are you willing to take correction? Or are you a “know it all”? Are you slow to speak and quick to listen?)
4. I take personal responsibility for my actions. (Or are you always quick to blame other people?)
5. I have accountability for my spiritual life (bible reading plan, accountability partner, mentorship)
6. When tough situations arise, I often find myself responding with prayer, reading the word or seeking godly counsel.
7. I am quick to forgive when someone offends me.
Never true of meRarely true of meSometimes true of meOften true of meAlways true of me
8. I stay patient and positive when things don’t go my way and exercise self-control.
9. I strive to serve in relationships rather than seek to be served.
10. I have a heart of gratitude and tend to be thankful to those who work and serve.
11. I am sensitive and empathetic to the emotions of others even when the situation doesn’t directly concern me.
12. I am teachable and open to correction.
13. I seek to reconcile with a friend after a disagreement as opposed to cutting them off.
14. When communicating with others, I listen to understand rather than listen to argue or get my point across.
15. I place priority on the voice of God concerning issues in my life.
Never true of meRarely true of meSometimes true of meOften true of meAlways true of me
16. I honor God with my tithes / offerings and look for ways to be generous with money
17. I use a monthly budget to plan my spending
18. I'm currently paying off debt or I have a plan to pay off my debt within a specified time
19. I have an emergency fund for unexpected expenses
20. I desire to and/or have a plan to invest money for the future (i.e. stocks, ETFs, real estate, etc.)
21. I have a stable source of income.
Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutralAgreeStrongly agree
22. I know my primary ministry assignment.
23. I know how God speaks to me (I hear God’s voice)
24. I operate in Faith (i don’t allow fear to stop you from doing what God has asked you to do)
25. I know what God has called me to do in my career
26. I feel I am currently fulfilling my purpose in my school/ work/ ministry.
27. I know what my gifts/ talents are and I am currently operating in them

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